Why Best Exotic Marigold Hotel is My Favourite Film

Released in 2011, this film had been on my list of ‘Movies to Watch’ for quite some time now. I finally got down to watching it yesterday and was blown away.


Official Synopsis:
The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel follows a group of British retirees who decide to “outsource” their retirement to less expensive and seemingly exotic India.  Enticed by advertisements for the newly restored Marigold Hotel and bolstered with visions of a life of leisure, they arrive to find the palace a shell of its former self.  Though the new environment is less luxurious than imagined, they are forever transformed by their shared experiences, discovering that life and love can begin again when you let go of the past.

Here’s my review of the film. (May contain spoilers. Look out for the Spoiler Alert in asterisks)

A group of ‘hoity-toity’ Britishers land in India (Jaipur, to be exact), and hate it at first sight . They fear getting lost in the ‘squalor, climate and poverty’. At the end, they become a group of elderly Britishers living their golden years in India, experiencing and enjoying a life completely different from their previous one. This film showcases their journey from arrogant disdain to acceptance, grudgingly at first, and later with open arms.
As is a popular belief here, India is the one country where among a population of over a billion people, one may end up finding themselves instead of getting lost.

Who :
Hollywood stalwarts like Judi Dench (if you don’t know her, you need to come out from your cave), Maggie Smith (Sister Act’s Reverend Mother for those who may have forgotten), Bill Nighy (of Love Actually and Valkyrie fame), Dev Patel (The Newsroom)  come together with seasoned Indian actors like Lillette Dubey, Tina Desai, Neena Kulkarni and Rajendra Gupta to create absolute magic onscreen in this cinematic masterpiece that’s helmed by John Madden.

Move over Bond’s Lady Boss, M as here comes aristocratic but vulnerable Evelyn in Judi Dench’s most endearing performance ever. Forget the strict but genteel Reverend Mother of the Sister Act series, as you meet Maggie Smith’s prejudiced and suspicious Muriel Donelly.

An outstanding film that combines the starkly realistic story-telling and superior production quality of Hollywood with the flamboyant, colourful and rich grandeur of India. The background of Jaipur havelis, the colours and customs of Indian festivals and the classical music bring alive a world that one can only experience to believe.

*Spoiler Alert*– Those who want to avoid the spoilers should skip right to end and read only the ‘Final Word

In one scene, a traditional, orthodox Rajasthani lady covers her head when she meets a stranger, even as she informs her husband of his gay lover’s arrival.
In another scene, a young girl sneaks off to meet her boyfriend for a mid-night tryst, even as his mother discovers them, indulges in name-calling and questions her (though, not his) morals. Judgemental attitude meets broad-minded, progressive thinking of a new-age India. Centuries old traditions and customs juxtaposed with changing mind-sets like acceptance of pre-marital sex and gay couples, gives a picture of regressive thinking and orthodox beliefs co-existing harmoniously with modern rebellion and youthful defiance. This film is more steeped in culture and tradition than any other stereotypical Bollywood film;  offering a truer reflection of today’s India with all its contradictions.


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I have two favourite scenes from this film.
The first one is an almost ‘one-scene visual description’ of the film. A white bird hops and skips at first, until it gains momentum, launches into flight and soars into the open sky; much like this film that shows the deceptive first appearances, until the time it gains traction (which happens quickly enough) and hurtles headlong into exploring the lives and magnificent experiences of the residents at the hotel.

The flying bird also symbolizes an important development in the story and continues into my second favourite scene; equally poignant, meaningful and deep. A closeted Englishman is cremated as per Hindu rites, in Udaipur – a city that’s affectionately described in touristy parlance as ‘India’s Venice’ or the ‘City of Romance’. Can’t get any more ironical than that, can it?

In a related scene, Judi Dench’s character Evelyn asks of the Rajasthani lady, if she had known her husband was gay. The lady’s reply is enough to stump Evelyn and is also a gentle reminder of what a husband-wife relationship should be, ‘arranged’ marriage notwithstanding.

Even in the midst of such scenes, are splashes of humour. They come at just the right time, bringing in a much needed respite from the sadness without diluting the strong emotion, thus further uplifting the story which would otherwise have become depressing or preachy.

Final Word

Realistic acting, powerful symbolisms, precise and crisp narration, funny dialogues, outstanding Indian music and above all, a believable story (Yes, it’s a long list!) makes this film one of those that one could watch again and again. And yet again.
It’s not a murder mystery that would lose its charm once the question of ‘whodunit’ is answered. But instead, is a subtle yet moving depiction of the contrast of the modern, western world and the conservative Indian society. An extremely insightful and intelligently funny film that offers a huge slice of a bittersweet dish called ‘life’ and its accompaniments ‘relationships’. Quite a revelation!

It is said that one must never give away the ending of a film, so I shall not commit that blunder. But I would like to share my favourite dialogue from the film (which in turn can actually be attributed to other sources, the most popular being a commercial Bollywood potboiler)

“Everything will be all right in the end. If it’s not alright, it’s not the end.”

This may be a Hollywood movie, but its body, heart and soul are as ‘Indian’ as it can get.

And that’s that’s why this is my latest favourite film. Wonder what kept me from watching it sooner. Heading over to watch the sequel now.

Did you like the review? Does it inspire you to watch the film? Please do share your feedback via the comment box below.

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  • Jo Mayne Casey
    Posted at 02:35h, 12 March Reply

    Okay, I admit that I skipped over the majority of this review, but I wanted to watch the movie by the third paragraph. I’ll check back later to compare and contrast. Thanks for your comments on my Photo 101 posts. Your blog is very helpful and inspiring.

    • Wandering Soul
      Posted at 02:40h, 12 March Reply

      If you’ve not watched the movie, then I’m glad you skipped 🙂 (That’s why the spoiler alert) 🙂 That it inspired you to watch is enough for me. Shall wait for feedback once you watch it. Your photos are indeed beautiful. Thanks so much for visiting and commenting.

  • mukul chand
    Posted at 02:37h, 12 March Reply

    nice post.

  • timelesswheel
    Posted at 02:51h, 12 March Reply

    Looking forward to watching the movie now 😊

  • Dr Sharan Joneja
    Posted at 07:49h, 12 March Reply

    Good Movie. Fascinating!

  • neildsilva
    Posted at 08:21h, 12 March Reply

    I have watched The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel at the cinema hall with my wife. It was an extremely cozy experience (because the hall was quite small!), but jokes aside, this movie was a fantastic experience too. I went mostly because of the two dames in the movie, Dame Judi Dench and Dame Maggie Smith, and they didn’t disappoint one bit. This Brit-com was one of the better made ones too – great production value and a nice concept. Most importantly, the Indian culture was not demonized when it quite easily could have been with such a theme. Have not seen the sequel though.

    • Wandering Soul
      Posted at 11:34h, 12 March Reply

      You’re so right, Neil! I loved that the negatives were not glazed over, nor were they exaggerated; but more like matter of fact treatment. None of the ‘oh, we’re a third world country. See we live in pitiable conditions.’ The haves and have-nots both are well presented. The two ‘Dames’ are brilliant! Loved them both and of course, dark horse Dev Patel. Loved him in ‘The Newsroom’ too.(B-t-w, Dev Patel’s character’s name is Neal in The Newsroom 😀 )

  • Soul Gifts
    Posted at 10:12h, 12 March Reply

    Fabulous movie, as is the sequel. Loved it 🙂 I’ve just seen another great Maggie Smith one – The Lady in the Van. Highly recommend it.

    • Wandering Soul
      Posted at 11:37h, 12 March Reply

      Thanks for that. Shall surely check it out. 🙂

  • jacquelineobyikocha
    Posted at 10:21h, 12 March Reply

    I think I will watch it again . I enjoyed it the first time.

  • stephrichmond
    Posted at 11:14h, 12 March Reply

    I love this movie, so feel good and every time I watch it it just restores my faith in humanity. Now I’ve read this I’ll have to watch it again.

  • lovehappily
    Posted at 20:28h, 12 March Reply

    Good review. I can’t wait to see it.

  • Jennifer Juneau
    Posted at 23:00h, 12 March Reply

    I love this movie too Piyusha!! 🙂 Now I feel like watching it again 😉 Great post on why it’s your favorite film!

  • Nedoux
    Posted at 23:08h, 13 March Reply


    I watched this lovely movie in 2014, it is on my list of top 10 favourite movies EVER! 😀

    Very heartwarming and with splendid acting, it is very refreshingly different from some of the fast-paced empty movies that are churned out so frequently.

    Yes, that part in the movie when the English man tells the story of his relationship with a man when he was younger and the journey to finding him touched me deeply. Life happens….

    I enjoyed reading this review, it brought back nice memories of the movie.

    Have a great week!

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